If you have a loved one who lives in a care home, then you know how important it is to visit them and to show them that you care about their happiness and wellbeing. Regular visits are often a highlight of a care home resident’s day, and they have something to look forward to every week if you keep a regular schedule.
However, some people find it difficult to visit their loved one in a care home, and that’s perfectly fine. They might not know what to say, do, or even expect, especially if it’s their first time visiting. If the resident has a severe condition, they might feel uncomfortable to visit for fear of hurting them.
Preparation is the key, which is why we’ve prepared a list of a few things you can do the next time you visit a nursing home.
- Organize a family day
Many care home residents get lonely because of the distance from their friends and family. They might feel like they are missing out on family activities and events. Organize a day with family and friends to make them feel included and reassure them that they have not been forgotten.
You can even invite friends who might feel too awkward visiting alone. Don’t forget to tag children and teens along for some quality time with their grandparents. For family members who live out of state, you can always have them make a video call.
- Watch their favorite films and TV shows
Watching a film or TV show is a quick and easy way to relax and spend time with friends and family. Some residents might not want to engage in a conversation, so this way, you can enjoy their company without feeling the pressure to talk.
If your loved one has a television in their quarters, consider bringing a spare laptop or DVD player so they can watch what they want in their own time. You can even share your video-on-demand subscription with them to keep them updated with the latest shows.
- Listen to music
Listening to music together is a beautiful way to connect with your loved one. You can play each other’s favorite songs and talk about how music has changed throughout the years. Music also tends to stir some memories, so you can sit and listen as they reminisce about their younger years.
- Bring their favorite meal
Food is best enjoyed with friends and family, so one great way to connect with a loved one is to eat with them, whether at the care home or in a restaurant. You can bring their favorite dishes and snacks and spend the entire afternoon talking while dining on good food.
- Go for a walk
 A stroll in the park can be a welcome diversion for someone living in a care home. If they can, one fun thing is to pick them up at the facility and go for a walk. They might enjoy spending time outdoors, taking in the fresh air. You can also stop at their favorite bakery or coffee shop for a quick bite.
Friendship and companionship give your loved ones something to look forward to in their twilight years. These activities are a great way to bond and keep them happy and content, even if you don’t see them that often.
